Pride Has No Place In a Relationship

Pride has no place in a relationship. We need to leave it at the doorstep when we enter a union. We must be willing to love our partner in a way that they need to be loved regardless of our opinions.
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Your partner might feel loved when you do the dishes without them having to ask for it, or they might feel loved when you adore them
verbally, touch them or if you buy them gifts.
We all receive, perceive and give love in different ways.
It is not our job to judge our partners needs, it is our job to meet them.
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if your partner is nagging you for things like more quality time, or for you to vacuum the floors, they are not trying to be a pain in you ass and you shouldn’t consider them to be high maintenance. This might just be your partner signaling to you that they feel empty and need more love.
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It is absolutely vital for us to learn how to speak our partners love language. If we feel that we can’t or won’t, then we should not consider being in a partnership with them. We can never change our partners love language, but we can always learn it if we are willing. Loving somebody in a way that they need to be loved is a conscious choice that we all can make.

#LoveMore

Wishing you all happy and fulfilling relationships.

The Voice of Truth

We all need that voice that makes us believe in ourselves. Either we find it within ourselves or outside ourselves. It doesn’t matter which one comes first, because one attracts the other.

Once we start listening to the sweet melody singing our praise, our whole being slowly fills up with a warm and beautiful sensation, that is our self worth.


Marry Yourself

Beautiful light. I want to encourage you to a more intimate relationship with yourself. Date yourself, fall deeply In Love with yourself, commit to yourself and marry yourself. As your self worth expands, doubt and obstacles disappear.

If you are curious about Self Marriage and what it is, here is a short description from wikipedia.

Self-marriage or Sologamy is marriage by a person to oneself. It is known as a commitment that values self-love, and self-compassion. Supporters of the practice argue that it leads to a happier life.

Go Where You are Celebrated

Go where you are celebrated not tolerated
Where people look at you with warmth and appreciation in their eyes
Where your thoughts and words are heard and deeply felt
Where your heart is seen and held
Where your soul feels free and at home
Where all of you is welcomed and adored

You are too wonderful, too magical, too precious to settle for anything
that doesn’t make you feel like the great and beautiful Being that you are.
So go ahead dear, it’s time now, go where you are celebrated not tolerated.

-Klara Kazmi


Serving Love

I often say that what I’m here to do is to serve love. A friend of mine suggested that I clarify what I mean by that.

How I practice serving love, is by feeling in to what love would do. It can be regarding my life path, relationships, or just a specific item I’m considering buying in the supermarket. Everything we do has an effect on all that is.

See It’s all about love, everything. I don’t mean romantic love, but the huge overwhelming sensation of bliss, euphoria, gratitude, peace and joy that resides within you. That is who you are, that is home.

Our society has created countless products, services to try to mimic the sensation of love. But the truth is there is nothing you have to do, be or have to feel love. You are Love. Love resides in the vehicle that you call your body.

So asking yourself “what would love do” is asking yourself, what would I, you, we do? trippy? ok let’s let the mind explain it, this should be fun.

Humans have always strived for approval, for a sensation of righteousness, doing what is “right” has made us feel good, or at least so we think. The thing with outer approval is that it will ultimately leave us shattered and empty. Because there are as many “right ways” as there are beings on this planet. So how do you find what’s right for you? Well, when you ask what love would do, you tune into that goodness that resides within you, the part of you who loves everybody, the part of you who remembers who you are. This part, let’s call it your heart will guide you to YOUR path.

How this works practically, is for example if you are about to embark on a new journey in your career, and something in your gut isn’t sure. Then ask yourself “What would love do?”, and the answer will appear quite quickly, unless you let your mind go bananas with it, don’t do that, just ask and let it go, the answer will come.

What you are doing with this practice, is establishing a communication between the heart and the mind. With time and practice you will quickly feel what resonates and what doesn’t.
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The mind is constantly gathering information and will have great reference points for you to use if you just give it the direction to what you wish to do. Like I wish to serve love in the best way I can. I want to do things, feel feelings, think thoughts that serve myself, humanity and all that is.  When you give the mind a direction like that, it begins to assist you in making more loving choices. See the mind can be quite clever, because deep inside it knows what love is. The mind is and has always been an old companion to your heart.

This is a journey not a destination. I’m not constantly happy or acting like a saint in every moment. That’s not the point with this practice. Being Human means that we have the ability (and gift) to detach ourselves from who we really are and experience contrasts like pain, sadness, anger etc. Those are all a wonderful part of our guidance system and need to be valued. The point with this practice is to give yourself permission to follow your bliss and still the longing of your heart.

Whatever I’m doing I try to check in with myself to see where I’m headed. For instance when I’m on stage performing, I always ask what the most loving thing I can do in this moment is. I want to serve my audience and I want to serve and honor my being. The answers I receive differs depending on the day and vibration of the crowd, sometimes it’s says give more light and connect, sometimes it says pull back and go within and show your vulnerability. The heart senses every heart in the audience and can better feel into what the greater good in this situation would be. The same goes for shopping, the heart feels what I need and what is good for the planet, and they always coincide. So my job is quite easy, my job is to surrender, to allow this body and mind to be of service to my soul, to all that is, and to Love.

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May your days be full of clarity, peace and joy.
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Nourish Your Dreams

We have to take our ideas and dreams where we can find support for them. All the plants and trees turn to the sun for nourishment, without it they can not grow. Your dreams and ideas need proper nourishment to blossom. So make sure to surround yourself with people who believe in you and your dreams.

#DreamsAreMeantToComeTrue

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Sending you love and light.

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What’s your purpose?

I truly believe that we all deserve to live our dreams. But most of us have a few inner blockages to get past to be able to do that. I will record a few videos that I hope will be helpful on your journey to live your dreams.

First up. I’ll talk a bit about how we can find out true purpose.

#DreamsAreMeantToComeTrue

Sending you lots of love and light!
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Self Dating

The thing about self-dating is that once you truly commit to yourself you instantly want to become the best version of you.

The same expectations that you would have of a partner, you begin asking from yourself.

You care for, cherish, pamper and adore yourself more and more each day, and once you find out how YOU need to be loved, you won’t ever settle for anything less.

You will finally see what a blessing you are, and you will see it in everyone you meet.

The Second Wife

She gets all the love
that you should have had
She gets all the adoration
that you never got
She gets all the support
that you needed
She gets all the presence
that you longed for
She gets everything
you worked so hard for
Not because she deserves it
more than you dear
Her heart simply wouldn’t settle for less.

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Writing from a feminine perspective. This poem is for all the people that feel hurt, bitter, even devastated that their ex has improved for someone else, and is now the perfect man he never was with you. I feel you. I have been on both sides of this rope, and I learned a valuable lesson. My partner will treat me the way I let him.

So don’t hate on the new woman, and don’t be mad at him either. Simply let that shit go. Be happy that she didn’t settle, be happy that he evolved and is now a more loving man. Be happy because the world needs more women that know the goodness of their heart, and wont settle for a man who doesn’t honor them. The world needs more men that start showing up and being the loving and caring beings that they are. The world needs more love period.

I know it might feel hard to let go dear, but you deserve to be seen. You deserve to be heard. You deserve to be held, and you deserve to be cherished. If your heart is longing and if your partner doesn’t try to meet your needs. Don’t settle. Hold your beautiful heart and promise it that you will give it the love that it deserves. Promise it that you will only invite people into your life that can love you as deeply as you love yourself. Your relationship with you will reflect in all the relationships you have. So chose a loving reflection.

Sending you love.
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