Self Dating

The thing about self-dating is that once you truly commit to yourself you instantly want to become the best version of you.

The same expectations that you would have of a partner, you begin asking from yourself.

You care for, cherish, pamper and adore yourself more and more each day, and once you find out how YOU need to be loved, you won’t ever settle for anything less.

You will finally see what a blessing you are, and you will see it in everyone you meet.

Trust

When I look at how I live my life today I can clearly see how limited my beliefs are. I’m not giving myself even close to what I desire, nor am I giving others what I am capable of giving. Now don’t you worry, I’m not putting myself down or anything like that, just observing where I’m at in my belief system. I need to compare my beliefs to my desires and adjust accordingly. What I want more of in my life right now is trust. I know that I can create wonders under the influence of trust. It doesn’t even matter if I fail, the most important thing is to carry trust in my heart.  It’s as simple as that, If I want to change my life I must believe it to achieve it.

I encourage you to look at your life today and ask yourself this

What does my heart desire? Do I TRUST that I can have it?

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Authenticity

Lately I have had this urge to share everything with everyone. I think I know what it is my soul is craving, it is authenticity. Meeting people in complete honesty, allowing everyone to see me and allowing myself to be seen. I am longing to be loved for who I am without veils or filters and I am longing to love without walls and borders. This longing has led me to have the most amazing interactions with complete strangers, don’t get me wrong I have always been uncomfortably honest with people, but I feel that I am taking this to a whole other level this time. I am consciously pushing my borders gently but steady, allowing my spirit to reach out and touch someones heart, and allowing them to touch an hold mine. My trust grows bigger and bigger with each day, and It’s becoming harder and harder to hold back, and easier and easier to let go. I’m constantly being tuned back in to listening to my soul, who is chanting this beautiful melody saying, open up dear, allow more!  I’m sacred sometimes but I always say yes (sooner or later) and happily wander down the path of my own Loveolution.

 

I wish you a happiness and love beyond comprehension.

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How to be happy

The first step to being happy in my book, is being ok with all that is.
That means embracing all your beautiful flaws and shadows, and loving them just as much as you love your radiant smile and light. So my question to you today is:

What parts of you are you hiding form the world and why?
How would it feel if you could embrace and love those sides of you and maybe even let others love them?

It can feel hard to let the world see all of you, I know, I’m struggling with this too. But I have found that the more times I dare to stay open, vulnerable and transparent the easier it gets.

It is important to make a conscious choice a commitment to practice openness, and  to allow yourself to be ok with who you are and all the emotions that you are experiencing in that moment. Letting people see you, all of you without feeling ashamed. You truly are perfect, and when you realize that, other people will too. If they for some reason don’t, it really doesn’t matter anyway, the only thing that does mater is how YOU feel about YOU.

I urge you to make this commitment to yourself today,  you deserve to live life fully and the world deserves to see you shine.

If you find it hard to remember this commitment,  it can help to have something that reminds you of it in your surroundings. I have a rose quartz around my neck, and as I go about my day I often touch this stone and ground myself for a second, reminding myself of who I am and why I’m here.

I want to share this inspiring quote by Jamie Catto with you, this moved me to the core. I’m working on allowing the world to love some parts of my body that have been hard for me to love, and I already see a shift coming.
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Wishing you loads of self love and bubbling joy.

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Have you found your Unicorn?

Running around trying to get things done, having this feeling that I’m missing something. I’m not sure where I’m going anymore I must have lost something, but what?

Then It dawned on me, I’ve lost my Unicorn! It’s not here anymore! I’m not sure when it happened or what I did to make it happened, but I do know that I have to do everything in my power to find my  precious unicorn again.

My Unicorn is my faith, my power, my mystic, my depth, my drive…simply put, it’s is the magic in my life!!

My beautiful bright Unicorn is my power animal, my other half, the one that I can always count on to keep me safe, the one that brings me back to  sanity and reality.

See, the reality is that life is pure magic, and if you have forgotten that, then you have lost your unicorn my friend. I guess we all knew what magic was deep down in our hearts when we were kids. We were wondering where the rainbow ended and fantasizing about how soft it would feel to sleep on a cloud. We bursted with excitement every time we saw a sunset, felt the grass under our feet or tasted a juicy cinnamon roll. Life was magical…. for most of us anyway.

If you never had this experience, or if you don’t remember it, don’t worry dear it is not too late, it is NEVER too late. You have the right to your own unicorn, every one does. You are entitled to a life full of magic, and the best part is you can always open your heart and let the stardust and magic in, this will lead you to your unicorn.

Yes, that is what I  am going to do right now, open my heart wide open and trust that my unicorn will come back to me. Oh, I can feel it now, we will ride down the sunset together my unicorn and I…. I wonder what magic lies behind the horizon.
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I wish you an open heart and open mind.
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