Self Dating – explore yourself.

I’ve been self dating for many years. I find it to be the most pleasant way to dig within and hear myself.

Today me and my inner characters discussed my level of self worth.
I believe we attract what we feel worthy of, so taking a step back and observing my life is the best way for me to mirror what needs addressing within.

My sweet anxiety had attracted a few thing into our space that I felt needed clearing and loving. So we sat down at a nice restaurant, created a safe and romantic vibe, had some Indian food and healed what needed to be healed.

Lots of old stuff came up. Fear was sharing her worries, anxiety was showing me how she got triggered by some of the things I do.

What they showed me was that some of my choices have not been fully heart based. My need to assist humanity has made me settle in some areas. And settling is never heart based, we only settle out of fear and a sense of lack.

My beautiful posse of emotions, showed me how I’ve used my service for humanity as an excuse to not go get what my heart is yearning for. Instead I’ve been helping others do that. Oh, the sweet irony. It was all so raw and beautiful.

Suddenly faith spoke loud and clear, reminding me that I am safe. The universe is holding me and all is well.

I love this time with myself. I love exploring myself and reminding myself of how precious every single emotion is. I love surrendering and feeling vulnerable with all that is going on inside and outside of myself. I love seeing how big my love is, and how much I can hold space for, within myself.

I’m sharing this with you in the hopes to inspire you to explore yourself more. You are a work of art and all of you deserves your love.

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#Loveolution #SelfDate

Barefoot in the Forest

Mmm Being barefoot in the forest… there’s nothing quite like it.
I love feeling earths beautiful energy pulsating underneath my soles, as I breath her in and invite the relaxing vibes to travel up my legs, then my spine and finally burst out through my head.
She reminds me that I am created from love, by love, to be love.
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#youareloved

Marry Yourself

Beautiful light. I want to encourage you to a more intimate relationship with yourself. Date yourself, fall deeply In Love with yourself, commit to yourself and marry yourself. As your self worth expands, doubt and obstacles disappear.

If you are curious about Self Marriage and what it is, here is a short description from wikipedia.

Self-marriage or Sologamy is marriage by a person to oneself. It is known as a commitment that values self-love, and self-compassion. Supporters of the practice argue that it leads to a happier life.

Go Where You are Celebrated

Go where you are celebrated not tolerated
Where people look at you with warmth and appreciation in their eyes
Where your thoughts and words are heard and deeply felt
Where your heart is seen and held
Where your soul feels free and at home
Where all of you is welcomed and adored

You are too wonderful, too magical, too precious to settle for anything
that doesn’t make you feel like the great and beautiful Being that you are.
So go ahead dear, it’s time now, go where you are celebrated not tolerated.

-Klara Kazmi


Serving Love

I often say that what I’m here to do is to serve love. A friend of mine suggested that I clarify what I mean by that.

How I practice serving love, is by feeling in to what love would do. It can be regarding my life path, relationships, or just a specific item I’m considering buying in the supermarket. Everything we do has an effect on all that is.

See It’s all about love, everything. I don’t mean romantic love, but the huge overwhelming sensation of bliss, euphoria, gratitude, peace and joy that resides within you. That is who you are, that is home.

Our society has created countless products, services to try to mimic the sensation of love. But the truth is there is nothing you have to do, be or have to feel love. You are Love. Love resides in the vehicle that you call your body.

So asking yourself “what would love do” is asking yourself, what would I, you, we do? trippy? ok let’s let the mind explain it, this should be fun.

Humans have always strived for approval, for a sensation of righteousness, doing what is “right” has made us feel good, or at least so we think. The thing with outer approval is that it will ultimately leave us shattered and empty. Because there are as many “right ways” as there are beings on this planet. So how do you find what’s right for you? Well, when you ask what love would do, you tune into that goodness that resides within you, the part of you who loves everybody, the part of you who remembers who you are. This part, let’s call it your heart will guide you to YOUR path.

How this works practically, is for example if you are about to embark on a new journey in your career, and something in your gut isn’t sure. Then ask yourself “What would love do?”, and the answer will appear quite quickly, unless you let your mind go bananas with it, don’t do that, just ask and let it go, the answer will come.

What you are doing with this practice, is establishing a communication between the heart and the mind. With time and practice you will quickly feel what resonates and what doesn’t.
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The mind is constantly gathering information and will have great reference points for you to use if you just give it the direction to what you wish to do. Like I wish to serve love in the best way I can. I want to do things, feel feelings, think thoughts that serve myself, humanity and all that is.  When you give the mind a direction like that, it begins to assist you in making more loving choices. See the mind can be quite clever, because deep inside it knows what love is. The mind is and has always been an old companion to your heart.

This is a journey not a destination. I’m not constantly happy or acting like a saint in every moment. That’s not the point with this practice. Being Human means that we have the ability (and gift) to detach ourselves from who we really are and experience contrasts like pain, sadness, anger etc. Those are all a wonderful part of our guidance system and need to be valued. The point with this practice is to give yourself permission to follow your bliss and still the longing of your heart.

Whatever I’m doing I try to check in with myself to see where I’m headed. For instance when I’m on stage performing, I always ask what the most loving thing I can do in this moment is. I want to serve my audience and I want to serve and honor my being. The answers I receive differs depending on the day and vibration of the crowd, sometimes it’s says give more light and connect, sometimes it says pull back and go within and show your vulnerability. The heart senses every heart in the audience and can better feel into what the greater good in this situation would be. The same goes for shopping, the heart feels what I need and what is good for the planet, and they always coincide. So my job is quite easy, my job is to surrender, to allow this body and mind to be of service to my soul, to all that is, and to Love.

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May your days be full of clarity, peace and joy.
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